What I always practiced with ailerons for example, (only because you`ll probably be using those more than rudder) IS to push your aileron gimble TOWARD the low wing ONLY when it`s coming towards you. In every other position of flight or during an approach for a landing as an example (except your final), your inputs will be as if you`re in the plane. This is exactly what the sim is GREAT for, training your brain and fingers to fly RC planes. WHEN you get and try a real plane (A TRAINER!!!!) START WITH low throws on your control surfaces, and work your way up to more throw for more and faster maneuvering. Like Broke Dad said Practice,Practice,Practice