I apologize to anyone that interpreted my words as anger. I truly appreciate your willingness and effort to try to figure out where the wheels left the cart. I didn’t get angry and have yet to hit post reply without a smile on my face.
Issue I had at the point you identified was that 12 didn’t offer additional assistance to try to resolve what MIGHT have been a very simple problem, but it was not resolved for the new member, regardless of how apparently simple the problem was to 12. He announced that it was a waste of time to continue efforts to actually reach a state where the user understood the issue and it was resolved to his satisfaction. Dunno about you, but I do not consider anyone attempting to aid their fellow man, is ever a waste of time, especially in a place established to foster peer support and fellowship.
Still, I did not consider that to be his main offense. That was in deciding to declare the effort a waste of time, he was telling a new user that trying to help them is a waste of time. The implication is that the subject is somehow beyond the capacity of the new user to grasp, both of which are unconscionable.
You have chosen to grant 12 some leeway and interpret the statement in a flattering light. Fair enough. That’s truly ok with me. I see how your interpretation might be wedged into that box in the limited scope of this exchange.
if you would be so kind as to read this recent exchange on another topic and then let me know if you are inclined to view the exchange here in the same light:
Views on any aircraft
From my viewpoint 12 declared this topic concluded, and when I continued to help, he chose to focus on me up to the point that he felt it was necessary to resort to a personal attack on my character and mental health. My pride is not wounded and my reputation stands on its own merits, despite the opinion of a random internet bully. I simply do not shy away from that sort of person or confrontation.
As I started this post, I truly appreciate your effort to mend fences. I will gladly help that or any other effort of good will just as soon as 12 stops stomping on my toes and those of other new users.
About the 14+ year membership and new member status. Both the date and new member badge are correct. I joined the forum in ‘06 and RF9 is my 4th version to enjoy. I never had the time to engage here to any meaningful degree for much of the intervening time, but I have used these forums as a resource for research fairly frequently throughout.
Thank you for encouraging me to continue to give back now that I have the time.
Be well and safe.
Issue I had at the point you identified was that 12 didn’t offer additional assistance to try to resolve what MIGHT have been a very simple problem, but it was not resolved for the new member, regardless of how apparently simple the problem was to 12. He announced that it was a waste of time to continue efforts to actually reach a state where the user understood the issue and it was resolved to his satisfaction. Dunno about you, but I do not consider anyone attempting to aid their fellow man, is ever a waste of time, especially in a place established to foster peer support and fellowship.
Still, I did not consider that to be his main offense. That was in deciding to declare the effort a waste of time, he was telling a new user that trying to help them is a waste of time. The implication is that the subject is somehow beyond the capacity of the new user to grasp, both of which are unconscionable.
You have chosen to grant 12 some leeway and interpret the statement in a flattering light. Fair enough. That’s truly ok with me. I see how your interpretation might be wedged into that box in the limited scope of this exchange.
if you would be so kind as to read this recent exchange on another topic and then let me know if you are inclined to view the exchange here in the same light:
Views on any aircraft
From my viewpoint 12 declared this topic concluded, and when I continued to help, he chose to focus on me up to the point that he felt it was necessary to resort to a personal attack on my character and mental health. My pride is not wounded and my reputation stands on its own merits, despite the opinion of a random internet bully. I simply do not shy away from that sort of person or confrontation.
As I started this post, I truly appreciate your effort to mend fences. I will gladly help that or any other effort of good will just as soon as 12 stops stomping on my toes and those of other new users.
About the 14+ year membership and new member status. Both the date and new member badge are correct. I joined the forum in ‘06 and RF9 is my 4th version to enjoy. I never had the time to engage here to any meaningful degree for much of the intervening time, but I have used these forums as a resource for research fairly frequently throughout.
Thank you for encouraging me to continue to give back now that I have the time.
Be well and safe.